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    December 30

    Happy New Year!

    Happy New Year!  Dear Reader, I hope you had a good year this year and wish you all the best in 2007.  From what I've heard from people in general, 2006 was a somewhat difficult year.  Here's to a better year next year.  Of course, nothing ever turns out the way you thought it would.  I thought about the movie "2001:  A Space Odyssey," the 1968 science fiction classic written by Arthur C. Clarke and turned into a film by Director Stanley Kubrick.  2001 was five years ago, soon to be six years ago.  The imagery in the 39-year-old film depicted a futuristic world far different from the reality of the 21st century.  NASA and other space agencies are still pondering how to put a man on Mars, let alone sending astronauts out into the far flung galaxy.  Astronauts now live long term on the International Space Station orbiting Earth, although it has been over 34 years since the last astronaut visited the Moon.  Only two of four Space Shuttles are still operational, and new spacecraft are a distant dream.  "2001:  A Space Odyssey" hardly reflects real life, let alone what actual space travel looks like in 2006.  I believe in the 10% Hollywood rule--reality reflects only about 10% of what Hollywood portrays.
     
    Ah, life never quite turns out how we think it will.  What will happen in the next 50 years?  100 years?  Next year?  We don't really know.  We don't really know what the new year has in store for us.  But we can plan ahead and do our best to make our dreams happen.  What do you plan to do next year?  Have you made some resolutions for the next year? 
     
    Here are my resolutions for 2006.  How did I/we do?
     
    • Lose 10 pounds.  I failed on this one.  I'm lucky that I held my weight this year.  This lifestyle is not conducive to weight loss.  Three years ago, I was about 10 pounds lighter than I am now.  Failed.
    • Increase our net worth by 15%.  Our net worth increased by 23%.  Goal exceeded.
    • Spending more time reading for pleasure and reading what I need to read.  I read just one book this year, unless you count the Bible and Jon Stewart's "America."  Failed. 
    • Improve my Korean.  Although my vocabulary digressed, I am more fluent in Korean than I was when I arrived in Korea.  Goal met. 
    • Take a real vacation.  We went on a two-week trip to China and spent two weeks on vacation in the U.S. visiting family.  Although I ran my parents ragged cramming as much as I could into two weeks, it was still a vacation.  Goal met.
    Well, three out of five ain't bad.  What are my goals for 2007?  I'll carry over the goals I did not achieve in 2006.
     
    • Lose 10 pounds.  I plan to focus more on weight loss in 2007.  I will ride my bicycle to work in the U.S. from March through June, and I plan to be physically active in Paraguay.  Time to stop dawdling and get serious about losing weight.  The slower pace of life in Paraguay will increase the probability that I will lose weight.
    • Spending more time doing things away from the computer.  This goes in tandem with the first goal.  I broadened this goal from merely reading more literature.  In Paraguay, I plan to do more volunteer work, participate in soccer and other activities such as golfing or tae kwondo.
    • Achieve fluency in Spanish.  This is not a wish--this is a requirement.  I cannot work in Paraguay if I don't speak Spanish fluently before I head to Paraguay.
    • Increase our net worth by 10%.  The percentage growth in our net worth will slow because the base net worth is higher in 2007, and we will become a one-income family again.  10% ain't bad, though.
    • Take two trips to other countries in South America.  We've already planned to take trips to destinations such as Buenos Aires next year.  We have six months to do it.

    Happy New Year, Dear Reader!  I hope you have a wonderful and prosperous 2007.  If you make any resolutions, I wish you all the best in fulfilling them.

    Five things you don't know about me

    As previously mentioned, "Girl in the Rain" challenged me and four other bloggers to come up with five bits of information about ourselves that no one knows (at least in the blogging world).  I also have to tag five other bloggers and challenge them to do the same without tagging me back.  Tagged victims are listed at the bottom of this entry.  It smacks of spamming, but oh well.  Here are five innocuous tidbits about me that you may or may not care to know:
     
    • I've been an aspiring author since I was eight years old.  When I was eight, I started writing my first book, a mystery.  I scanned the first page and uploaded it for you to peruse (pre-edited and with plenty of errors).  Before I graduated from high school, I wrote several books, none of which I published.  Most were either in the science fiction/fantasy or action/adventure genres.  When I was 15 years old, I entered one of my novels in a contest sponsored by Bantam Books.  The winner's submission was published as a Choose Your Own Adventure.  Although my submission, "The Two Sides of Africa," was not published, it was a finalist, and the editors at Bantam wrote me a personal commendation.  My early years of prolific novel writing have ceased, but blogging helps me keep up my writing skills.  In the future, I plan to return to writing fictional novels.  When I have time.
    • I am an amateur cartographer, cartoonist, and illustrator.  When I was young, I drew maps, lots of them.  Just ask my brother and sister, who thought I was really strange for spending many hours by myself in my room alone working on fictional maps and companion stories.  I myself wonder how I ever managed to have a social life while I was a secondary school student.  I drew detailed maps of over two dozen fictional cities, states, countries, and worlds.  Some of these maps are complements to some of my stories, including the map of Northmark, a fictional land where one of my novels is set.  I uploaded samples of the different types of maps I used to draw.  I'm still working on one map, but I haven't touched it for a couple of years.  I used to drew maps freehand, but in recently I've used Microsoft's Paint program to draw them.  I have little time nowadays for cartography.  I also enjoy drawing cartoons and illustrations, particularly for my books.  In fourth and fifth grades, I won school awards for two of my illustrations.  I also developed many cartoon characters, and I drew comic strips such as "Kelvin" for my college newspaper and "Jersey," a cartoon world I created in high school.  "Jersey" was especially fun with characters such as "Greyfoot the Rabbit," a drunken rabbit who resembled Garfield the Cat, Walter W. Walterson, a geeky fellow with a receding hairline, and the "Vegging Fruitcakes," a music group with a celery stalk on guitar, a carrot bassist, and a potato drummer.  I don't have any cartoon samples, but I'll upload one if I find it.
    • I was active i school programs, and I starred in four productions before I graduated.  In fourth grade, I played Ichibod Crane in our school's rendition of the Legend of Sleepy Hollow.  In fourth grade, I wrote and starred in a short play called "How Little Big Chief Tamed the Mountain" written for a friend of mine named Matt who has severe a speech impediment.  Matt played Big Chief, and Tracy, a girl who was my first school crush, played his daughter.  In sixth grade, I portrayed Thomas Edison in our school musical, "The Electric Sunshine Man," singing two solos.  In tenth grade, I went on to star in "Teen II," our high school musical.  I left choir after tenth grade and never performed again except for singing in church choirs.  I've thought about trying my hand at community theater, but this urge somewhere deep down in my lengthy to-do list.
    • I think mean people suck.  I'm a pretty positive and cordial person, as you can probably tell from my blogging.  I am relatively intolerant of people who have an overly negative outlook on life and are obnoxiously rude, including screamers and condescenders.  We're like oil and water.  We don't mix well.  I turn them off, and I do my best to avoid them.  You can be a shameless self-promoter, a egotistic showboat, a gossip, a slacker, a know-it-all, a prankster, a whiner, quirky, dogmatic, or any variation thereof, but please, just be civil.  Leave behind your bad attitude and check your rudeness at the door when you come talk to me--I don't want to hear it.  I will be civil to you and expect you to be civil to me.  If you must be negative, so be it, but for heaven's sake, don't be rude and/or condescending.  You might get away with it for a time, but the odds are you will reap what you sow.  Nice people won't give you the time of day when you need it.  So just give in and try being nice before we turn out to be just like you and treat you rudely or look down on you.
    • I have a weakness for baked goods, and I want Girl in the Rain to send me baked goods for Christmas every year from now on.  "Girl in the Rain," put me up to writing this blog entry, so she must indulge my craving by baking delicious treats and mailing them to me annually wherever I am in the world.  Girl, please send a care package to Paraguay next year!  I enjoy snickerdoodles, peanut brittle, and haystacks!

    Now I have to tag five bloggers who need to tell you on their blogs about themselves.  So, take it away Doodlespace, Tortmaster, Quemino's WorldMuna, and Editfish!

    December 28

    Featured Blog: Muna's Blog

    I searched the Web last month to see whether I could find any Paraguay-focused blogs written in English.  There aren't many Paraguay blogs in the blogosphere written any language, even in Spanish, German, or Guarani (an indigenous Paraguayan language), Paraguay's primary languages.  That's why I was fortunate to stumble upon Muna's Blog (http://www.emeraldpass.com/blog/), one of the few English-language blogs focusing on Paraguay (World Adventurers will also focus on Paraguay next year after we move to Asuncion). 
     
    A native Paraguayan, Muna now lives with her family in suburban Seattle.  We're happy that Muna is not only Paraguayan but also has a Seattle connection.  She now lives not far from where we lived before we moved overseas.   We've already been in contact with Muna and plan to meet her when we visit Seattle next February.  Next summer, she will return to Paraguay for a visit (which is actually wintertime in Paraguay because the seasons are reversed in the Southern Hemisphere).  We're looking forward to meeting Muna again when she visits our new, adopted home.  In addition, we hope that Muna will introduce us to Paraguayan culture, especially Paraguayan locals.  We've been told by many people who have spent time in Paraguay that meeting and making Paraguayan friends can be an immense challenge for expatriates.  I'm looking forward to experiencing Paraguayan culture at the local level and hope that Muna can help us get started.
     
    Muna's blog features a treasure trove of information about Paraguay.  It is quite interactive, with videos, music, and photos of Paraguay that help the country come alive on the Internet.  Muna's blog heightens our anticipation of what lays in store for us in this interesting land, and it piques our interest in getting to know Muna and her family.  Check out her blog!
    December 27

    Putting aside politics for a change

    I read the news today that President Ford passed away.  My condolences to the Ford Family, especially his wife Betty.  The media seems to be working overtime to remind us that President Ford was the only unelected U.S. president and that his pardon of President Richard Nixon may have cost him the presidency in 1976, a debatable contention.  A couple weeks ago, the media turned South Dakota's U.S. Senator Tim Johnson's courageous fight to survive brain surgery into a balance of power struggle in the U.S. Senate.  What a shame. 
     
    It's a shame that the media always seems to find a political angle to every story, even when lives are at stake and deaths are involved.  President Ford, a Republican, deserves to be remembered as a U.S. President, without asterick or caveat, just as much as the other 42 men who served in the office.  Likewise, Senator Johnson, a Democrat, deserves the dignity to be left out of politics while he recovers from surgery.  No one should focus on the balance of power in the U.S. Senate and whether it will tip in favor of the Republicans or Democrats--Senator Johnson deserves a chance at full recovery.  Democrats should not be rooting for him to live in order to pass bills, and Republicans should not be wishing the worst to befall him.  The business of Congress can wait.  The media should focus less on making a political story out of human tragedy.  Matters of life and death should not be politicized.
    December 26

    Charlotte's Web

    From time to time, I walk up the stairs outside our home and have a look at the tattered remnant's of Charlotte's web.  If you recall, Charlotte was our pet spider, a beautiful golden orb weaver spider who lived near a lamp next to our house.  Golden orb weavers usually build webs in clusters, but Charlotte did not.  She built her web in a secluded location.  The three spiders that collectively built their webs in our front yard disappeared mysteriously earlier this year.  Only one spider survived the entire summer and fall.  That's Charlotte, whom I named after the famous arachnid in the beloved children's novel and blockbuster film
     
    Charlotte was a special spider.  She withstood the hot summers, the balmy fall, and torrential pre-winter rains.  Even with the insect population dwindling by the day as the cool weather took them, Charlotte survived.  She must have lived at least five months, far longer than I've ever seen any spider survived.  One day in late November, Charlotte disappeared, leaving her empty web behind (pictured, taken on December 24).  I looked all over for her, hoping to find her, but she crawled away somewhere to rest in peace (I assume).  I still have not found her, but I left her web intact in case she decides to return. 
     
    We had a special connection, Charlotte and I.  Whenever a branch, leaf, or other debris became entangled in her web, I extracted it so she could rebuild it.  I'm positive she understood and appreciated my help.  She was one smart, hearty, beautiful spider.  I, in turn, trusted her not to sink her fangs into me while I touched her web.  I reckon that golden orb weaver bites are both painful and poisonous, so it took mutual understanding for us to work together to clear her web of offending debris.  She couldn't do it herself--she needed someone to help her.  At the same time, she helped me by doing her part to control the insect population in our backyard by catching and devouring them.  I enjoyed watching her fix her web.  She would crawl into a corner, ponder how to fix it, and then start working again like a carpenter on a bungee cord.  It was absolutely fascinating. 
     
    And now, only the web remains.  It is cluttered and tattered, but I won't remove the debris.  That would tear it even further, and I cannot repair.  I would rather leave as it was when Charlotte wandered away.  I still hope every day that she will come back to fix her web once again.
    December 25

    Changdeokgung and Beewon

    Yesterday my family and I visited Changdeok Palace in Seoul.  We took my in-laws, who are in town visiting for a month, because we had not yet visited one of Seoul's main tourist attractions.  It's hard to believe that it took us almost two years to visit the palace, but I'm glad we did.  The day was cool but not too cold, and the pathways were muddy, but we had fun on Christmas Eve day venturing to see one of Korea's main palaces.
     
    Changdeokgung, or the East Palace, was built between 1405 and 1412 during the reign of King Taejong of the Joseon Dynasty.  Located just to the east of Gyeongbok Palace, former home of the late Joseon monarchs, Changdeokgung served as the main palace of the Joseon Dynasty until 1872, when the seat of government moved to Gyeongbok Palace.  Changdeokgung has been damaged and destroyed several times by the Japanese, French, Chinese, and Americans, although Changdeokgung's literature only notes that it was destroyed in 1592 by the Japanese.  The palace is perhaps most famous for "Beewon," or "Secret Garden," a sanctuary for the Korean king/emperor that included a library, fish pond, and fishing house where the king/emperor could catch fish from the fish pond.  In 1997, the palace became a UNESCO World Cultural Heritage site.
     
    For the shutterbugs:  I posted two new photo albums tonight.  One features photos from the Christmas season, including photos taken during our first snowfall, a Christmas concert, our son's school's Christmas production, and Christmas at home.  The second features photos from yesterday's trip to Changdeok Palace.  Enjoy!
     
    Blog Notes:  It completely slipped my mind that this blog is two years old!  On December 6, 2004, I started World Adventurers after MSN announced that it was offering a free blogging forum.  Happy birthday, World Adventurers.  217,000 hits later, it's still going strong, although the author hasn't had much time to write lately.  I'm hoping to use the holiday to make up for lost time.  Thanks for stopping by as faithfully as ever, Dear Reader.
     
    "Girl in the Rain," November's featured blogger, has cursed me by forcing me to join a game of "meme."  Because it would violate the unwritten meme code of ethics, I apparently can't add any tags back to her blog, so you'll have to hunt and peck in the archives for the link (hint: Visit the sparse November archives).  OK, Girl in the Rain!  I'll give you a hard time at work tomorrow for clogging up the blogosphere and will take up the challenge you have lain at my virtual feet like a cyber-gauntlet: 
    Name “Five Things You Don’t Know About Me,” and then tag five others. 
    OK, I'm game.  Let me think about it, and I'll write about this in the next couple of days.  The five tagged people will come from a list of people I've featured in the past.  Or, if you prefer, I can tag you, Dear Reader, if you volunteer.  That would be much better then spamming five of my good friends!
    December 23

    Christmas greetings

    I'm not in the holiday spirit this season.  I've really been procrastinating when it comes to anything related to the holidays.  I finally finished up my Christmas chores today.  Yesterday I went shopping and bought some Christmas gifts for my wife.  While it was a speedy shopping trip, which I admitted to her yesterday, I ended up buying her some thoughtful, practical gifts--some cosmetics I think she wants, in her favorite brand, a Celtic music CD (she loves Enya's music, so I guessed she would like this album), some Godiva chocolate to replenish the dark chocolate I pilfered from her, the movie "Chicago" on DVD (the movie we saw just before she gave birth to our son), and a parenting book.  You read it here first.  I am convinced that she will not read this entry before Christmas Day, so you, Dear Reader, will know what she's getting for Christmas before she does--if you read this entry before Christmas.  Because this is my first blog entry in a week, I'm sure you were just dying to know.
     
    Today I locked myself in this room and spent hours finishing my Christmas cards and electronic greetings.  Unfortunately, most recipients, including friends and some family members, received a Christmas e-greeting from me in the form of an e-mail and the Christmas letter pasted in below as an e-mail attachment.  In case you aren't on my personal Christmas card list, you are more than welcome to consider this posting your very own Christmas greeting from World Adventurers.  Perhaps I should feel guilty about sending e-greetings to loved ones in a spam-like manner, but I really don't.  We've received a dearth of Christmas greetings this season, in the mail or by e-mail.  At the risk of sounding like a whiner, I assert that it's better to send an e-greeting than nothing at all.  Most recipients never reciprocate.  It seems that the only time I hear from them is when they don't receive their annual Christmas letter.  Some of them may read this and can take it as a not-so-subtle hint to send us an update from time to time!  Well, have a blessed Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

    Greetings from the Land of the Morning Calm!  We hope you had a wonderful 2006, and we wish you a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.  We hope to see you again next year when we return to the states.  Our two-year tour in Korea will end soon.  Next February, our family will return to the U.S. to get set for a new adventure.  We will make stops in Hawaii, Washington State, Idaho, and Montana, after which we will head to Washington, D.C. for Spanish training.  Then, in July, we will head to Asunción, Paraguay for two years.  Paraguay lies in the heart of South America, wedged between Brazil and Argentina.  We look forward to exploring South America for the first time and invite you to visit us anytime.  Asunción is a short flight to many great destinations, including Buenos Aires, Argentina, Santiago, Chile, and Rio de Janiero, Brazil.  Paraguay is also home to one of the world’s most spectacular waterfalls, Iguasu Falls.

    In August, Mike lost his father, who passed away unexpectedly.   Mike attended his funeral service and shared fond memories of his father with family and friends.  We were fortunate to have had the opportunity to see Mike’s father one last time when we visited the United States in May.  We had no idea it would be the last time they would spend time together.  Mike’s father is survived by his wife, a special lady who is both a stepmom and a friend.

    In April, we traveled to China and spent two weeks with family in Shanghai.  We also took a short trip to Xi’an, China, home to the famous terra cotta warriors guarding the tomb of Emperor Qin Shi Huang.  We also traveled around Korea, visiting Jeju Island, Wolchulsan and Odaesan national parks, and Yongpyong Resort, Korea’s largest ski hill and film location for “Winter Sonata,” a popular Korean drama.  We also welcomed a few guests to Korea, including Mike’s parents, cousin , and Mike's in-laws, who are visiting us during Christmastime.  We are in Korea at a pivotal time in history, with tensions on the peninsula running high because of the recent nuclear tests and Six Party Talks, and with former Korean Foreign Minister Ban Ki-Moon becoming the new Secretary-General of the United Nations.  Fortunately, the atmosphere here has been relatively calm, and we feel very safe in Seoul.

    Our son had a really fun year.  He started the year participating in gym class, music class, and play group, but he is now a preschooler at a local Montessori school in Seoul, where he spends half days learning everything from reading to painting.  In the afternoon, our nanny takes him to the library, playground, and to over to neighborhood friends’ houses to play.  This fall, he started playing soccer.  Although he can’t keep up with the four-year-olds, he played his heart out.  We’re positive he’ll flourish in Paraguay, where soccer is a national obsession.  Our home in Asunción will also have a pool, and he will learn to perfect his swimming skills.

    Mike's wife has been working as a manager in the Seoul office of a global accounting firm.  She enjoys her job, but in January she will resign before we depart Korea.   She is looking forward to a change of scenery, spending more with our son, learning Spanish, and beginning new endeavors in Paraguay. 

    Mike is almost finished working in Embassy Seoul’s Consular Section.  Mike also spent much of the year volunteering as board chair of the community association, helping improve the community and managing the association’s assets.  He enjoyed meeting Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, having drinks with Federal Communications Commission Chairman Kevin Martin, and returning to his alma mater as a “Hometown Diplomat” to discuss careers in the Foreign Service with graduating seniors.

    Blog notes:  Special thanks to the 550 visitors who stopped by this week to visit World Adventurers even though I have been offline for about a week.  I'll try to write more often and give you more to peruse.  Thanks again!
    December 16

    Glad to be here

    I read that weather conditions in the Seattle area have been atrocious and that the power is off for about 1.5 million people living in the area.  Apparently the number without power has decreased to about 950,000, but that's still a large number of homes.  It reminds me of the Winter of 2003, when the power went out in our Seattle metro neighborhood no less than three times, once for about two days.  Life was miserable.  Life is bearable in Seattle during the winter when the power is on; without it, life is untenable.  While arguably better than living in areas that deal with large snowfalls, the cold, damp conditions that seep into Seattle-area homes during a blackout are miserable for people not accustomed to such wretched, sustained weather conditions.
     
    Well, I'm thankful we're here in Seoul now!  We could be in Seattle--we'll be there in about two months.  Although the weather in Seoul is not known for being kind, it has been unseasonably mild here, for the most part almost enjoyable.  Yes, it is true, in spite of what my wife wrote earlier this month.  I'm glad we're here in Korea enjoying the crisp, mild winter weather conditions.
    December 11

    This is what makes America great!

    I know I'm probably the last tech wonk to stumble across this Internet phenomenon, but I think it's absolutely hilarious!  The saga of Chad Vader, Day Shift Manager, is zany, brainy, and very entertaining.  I read that it is now one of the most popular indy short films available online and a YouTube staple, eclipsing illegal Jon Stewart and The Colbert Report clips in popularity.  In this fabulous dramatization, Chad Vader, Darth Vader's younger brother, works at as a shift manager at an American supermarket.  The fourth installment was released in October, and the fifth installment is now being filmed.  The clips chronicle his struggle to win the respect of his employees through mind control, his seduction and subsequent dumping by fair Clarissa, no Princess Leia she, his fall from day shift manager to night shift manager, and lightsaber duels in the bread aisle.
     
    Why does the saga of Chad Vader make America great?  Isn't it just a silly series of short clips by a couple of unkempt dudes from Madison, Wisconsin, who are hankering for attention and Internet fame?  No, and here's why.  "Chad Vader, Day Shift Manager" is a intelligent analysis of stereotypical American culture using an well-known icon from one of American's great film sagas.  It is designed by a bunch of Americans, filmed in an average American supermarket and posted to the Internet, which was developed by the U.S. Government, using equipment either invented by Americans (the computer, the router, the movie camera) and/or built by American companies (Apple, HP, Microsoft, Cisco, Intel), watched largely by Americans on American web sites such as YouTube.  End to end, these short clips are at least 99.9999% American, from thought to execution. 
     
    Sure, there are other influences at work, presumably the Greek tragedy or Japanese-made film equipment, but this work is an ideal example of Americana.  If you think the saga of Chad Vader is silly, then you might also be tempted to assume that America is somehow lacking if Chad Vader represents the pinnacle of all that is American.  I contend that it shows that America encompasses the big, bold, simplistic, and kitschy, yet at the same time, is deep and empowered, enabling anyone to excel.  I'm looking forward to watching the next installment of Chad Vader's saga and dwelling on what makes America great.
    December 09

    The "B" Word

    I talked to my mom tonight on the phone.  She surprised me by calling at 5:30 p.m. Korea time, or after midnight her time.  Usually I call her much earlier.  I was happy to hear from her.  She asked how we're doing.  I told her the "B" word.  She usually dislikes hearing the "B" word.  No, not that "B" word, the one you might be thinking.  This "B" word has four letters.  The "B" word means "busy," a word shortened to one letter because it can grate on the ears like an uttered profanity.  Usually, "B" refers to work or family activities, but in this case, "B" means that it's the Christmas season and holiday activities are starting to occupy our calendar.  Last night some friends took us to dinner.  On Saturday morning, our son was slated to attend the children's Christmas Party, and this evening we went to a goodbye dinner for a good friend who is also a colleague.  Afterwards, we went to hear the Seoul Singers perform at a Christmas Concert at Yeongnak Church in Seoul (if you recall, I briefly joined the Seoul Singers earlier this year but had to drop out because of time commitments).  Tomorrow, I plan to attend "My Fair Lady" to watch one of my colleagues who is a member of the cast.  My wife and son will go to a goodbye party for a classmate and her family, who will depart soon.  If we have time, our family also plans to visit our nanny's Filipino church for their annual Christmas extravaganza.  We might be too "B" to attend, but we'll see.
     
    In the meantime, we finished our Christmas letter, and we're in the middle of writing Christmas cards.  My wife has taken the lead on Christmas preparations, doing virtually all of the Christmas shopping and wrapping gifts.  I've mailed them, though.  I feel like such a Christmas slacker this year.  I'm so glad that my wife has taken the initiative on gift preparations.  I spearheaded the Christmas tree decorating over Thanksgiving weekend, but ever since that initial holiday cheer, my interest in Christmas has been subdued this year.  Not the reason for the holiday--Jesus' birth, mind you--but all the commercial trappings surrounding Christmas.  The commercialism makes the Christmas season feel too "B," in my humble opinion.  As much as I love family members and friends, it's just become a real chore this year planning and executing Christmas logistics in a foreign country.  Plus, we are leaving Korea in less than two months.  My thoughts are now preoccupied primarily on getting us ready for our move and extricating ourselves from this country.  I'm glad though that we aren't too "B" to go to some Christmas productions reminding us to be festive during this holiday season.
    December 05

    Guest blogger: Silly cold day thoughts...

    My wife wrote another interesting blog entry for your reading enjoyment.  She's right...things could always be worse!  They could always be better too.  Her thoughtful entry is a refreshing change from my meandering musings.

    Have you noticed that weather really has an impact on our moods?  Every time I feel sorry for myself for enduring another cold winter day in Seoul, I check CNN for the temperature in Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia.  In Ulaanbaatar, todays high is 12F (-11C), and the low is -21F(-29C).  THAT is cold!  Some of our friends are currently serving in Ulaanbaatar for a two-year tour, and they are enduring true hardship.  The spouse is a very adaptable lady, but last time I heard, she is not having that great time there.  And that was during summertime!  My thoughts go out to her family as well as the can of Godiva Hot Cocoa that I am sending them for Christmas.

     

    After Ulaanbataar, I like to check the weather in Shenyang, China.  Shenyang almost became our next post.  Had we bid it one spot higher on our list, we very well could be heading there soon.  So its a could-have-been place.  Aside from hardships such as pollution, Shenyang is also not a city best known for its weather.  Today Shenyangs high is 25F(-4C) and low is 5F(-15C).   Still too cold to do anything outside.

     

    Usually by now, my mood would improve and my complaints would subside.  In comparison, todays high in Seoul is 38F(3C) and low 26F(-3C).  I am thankful for being in Seoul. 

     

    This self-comforting technique seems to work well for me.  So next December when we are in Paraguay enduring the summer heat, I will be sure to check CNN often for Riyadh, Kuwait city, or Cairo, for their summer temperature, of source.  Any other suggestions?

    Very true!  I rarely ponder the weather.  It doesn't affect my mood much, although I don't like the frigid cold or sweltering summer days.  Seoul isn't known for good weather, but it's not bad considering the weather in other Asian locales.  Of course, the weather in U.S. cities is generally better than it is in Asia, in my humble opinion.  South America is a different story.  I'm under the impression that South America generally offers wonderful weather.  Paraguay will be very hot in the summer (November - February) and warm in the winter (June - August) , and it doesn't have four seasons that I enjoy.  That's OK...we can always find comfort in our pool!  Yes, we will have a pool, one of the nice little perks of life overseas in an exotic locale.

    December 03

    KT Tunstall's history comes full circle

    I don't often blog about music or musicians, but lately I've been fascinated by KT Tunstall, a singer from Scotland whose debut album is a recent hit.  When I heard her first big hit, "Black Horse and the Cherry Tree," on the radio, I immediately thought, wow, a pop song.  She's not a teen idol, country musician, American Idol winner, or hiphop artist.  She is an honest-to-goodness pop-rock singer, the kind who doesn't come along very often nowadays.  Her music style reminds me of Melissa Etheridge, Sheryl Crow, and Michelle Branch.  I'm interested in seeing how her career fluorishes over the next few years.  Of the singers mentioned, all have enjoyed commercial success, although their first couple of albums were inevitably more popular than their follow-on releases.  They are usually best known for one or two hits.  KT Tunstall's music is refreshing to hear amidst all the clutter on contemporary Top 40 radio.  I was surprised to find out that she grew up in Scotland, because her sound does not conjure images of the Scottish highlands.  Her strong, soulful, folk music style sound more like it originated from Nashville, not Edinburgh, Scotland.
     
    I don't want to dwell on Tunstall's music.  You'll have to listen for yourself to decide whether you like her style.  What I find most interesting is her personal history.  According to Answers.com, KT's biological mother is of Chinese descent, and her father is Irish.  She was born in Edinburgh and adopted at birth by the Tunstall family.  The fact that her ancestry is partially Chinese in the land of the Scots piqued my interest.  It took a little sleuthing to learn a more about her personal history.  I found the following information on Scotsman.com:
    She is quarter-Cantonese. Her grandmother was Chinese, but her mother, a dancer, was born in Edinburgh and has lived there all her life. Seven years ago, Tunstall tracked her down, after having seen Mike Leigh's Secrets and Lies. "It's such an outrageously awful, brilliant film, the story of a black woman who discovers her mother is white. I watched it and thought, 'I could handle that. And if I could handle that, I could surely handle anything.'"

    Her father is Irish and worked in a bar, but despite trying, she has never found him. In any case, it seemed natural to trace her mother first. "Your mother is a woman who could have had a termination and didn't," she says. "Your father could have been a one-night-stand who hasn't been seen since."

    She is intrigued by the 18 days before she was adopted. "I find it fascinating to think that for two weeks I didn't have a mother. You have this short time when you have no idea what this baby's future is going to be."

    Did she ever feel abandoned? "No, but there have been moments... I met her seven years ago, and that was a strange process. You go through moments of thinking, 'Actually, how does that work, and what was she feeling?' But you just have to keep asking questions. At the end of the day, you are meeting a stranger. I've known her seven years, but that's not long. I have to be slightly protective of the relationship, because we still have a long way to go."

    Because Tunstall's biological grandmother is Chinese, it is quite likely that her grandfather, a Scot, lived for a time in China, probably in Hong Kong, during the 1920's and/or 1930's.  He most likely met her grandmother, fell in love with her in Victoria or Kowloon, married her, and brought her back with him to Edinburgh.  Tunstall's grandmother did what Pocahontas had done in 1616, when she moved to England with her husband John Wolfe (not John Smith, as is popularly assumed).  Although Tunstall's grandmother likely experienced British culture in China or Hong Kong, migrating to Scotland must have been an immensely life-changing experience.  She very likely never returned to Asia because of the difficulty traveling before the advent of trans-continental air travel and World War II.  Now, her granddaughter is a famous musician, and her music has found its way to Asia.  Tunstall's popularity has definitely brought her full circle with her Asian heritage.